T2L, too bad you are in CA and not around the corner, we would be mixing margaritas right about now. I am sitting here alone, my D is taking a walk with some of her friends. H says about 6 pm I am going to clean out my car and then grab something to eat and get a coffee. It is 9:30. now. He calls D about 8 and says I am going to the executive club (a lie), now D is worried he is out drinking, which he probably is - celebrating his new apt. Tonight I don't even like him, never mind love him. He was never this hurtful, knows he can do whatever he wants and not care what we think. I wish I could kick him out. I agree with Sandi these guys are both full MLC. Did you read Divorce Remedy about MLC, my H could be the poster child. Sandi thanks for your kind words on this thread. Marisol be strong and get that legal advice. OMG the Divorce Store, that is unbelievable. Still shaking my head on that. I need to be strong before my D comes home. I see in her eyes she is worried about me.. I hate this.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09