"Man oh man! I think he is in serious limbo country. He seems angry at the world b/c his W left him."
And.. in all fairness.. he should feel that way.
I was pissed when my W "left".
"I don't know, sweetie, you may have that type of man on your hands too."
We do! Understand that! 100%
"She did everything she could think of to get the M back together, but no go b/c of his stubborness. "
Here we disagree.. Maybe AmyC needs to come have a look. In my mind.. she just never "showed" him.. things could be different. She did not "poke" him the right way.
"Have to ask yourself if you are sure you want to wait this out or move on. It's your call. But, frankly, I just don't know what to do with the man."
Hmmm.. this seems familiar.. The outcome is the same. She is posting here.. or off GAL with H.
Christa.. you can wait. Never think that is not a option. If you want to wait.. say the word.
I will say it again.. people don't seek me out.. to chit chat.
Sandi2.. can chit chat. And I love her for it.
I can't walk someone thru the "mental" part of it.
I mean.. I have said it before.. I love the fact she is Lan's friend. She walked him thru.. the stuff I could not.
We are here for you.. and what you want to do.
Even if me and Sandi2.. don't agree.
The simple fact remains.. we are both here.
Honestly.. to me.. that says alot.
We see the same things.. you just have to lead.. and show us the way.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
