What if that is not conducive to an LTR... I find myself thinking that thought over and over again. With The X - he thought he wanted someone that was independent and worked. And that is what he married again. He was proud of my professional achievements but really he needed a full time wife. And he needed to be the primary earner. He needed me to need him in a traditional sense.
I already know that with my career and children - I can't do everything that a stay at home wife does. I tried it once - I can't do it again.
Sometimes I am going to be too tired to talk. Sometimes the house will be a mess. Sometimes I will be cranky. And sometimes I will need my "cave" time. There will be times when work will get in the way. I need time to decompress after work - that transition time. The X use to want to talk - and really sometimes I just said - uh huh w/o really listening b/c I was tired. And sometimes I just need space.
I think sometimes I feel exhausted just thinking about being in an R...
