Can you not call the credit card company and have that account closed? I know they can issue another card with a different account number. So, I don't know why there would be a problem in closing the account. Tell them that divoce is pending and you must close the account to avoid more charges or else it could mean bankrupt. I think they will work with you in order to prevent that from happening b/c they want their money! There are too many divorces with stitches just like yours. There are ways around the credit cards. You must get banking accounts. The big things like the cars and house.....that has to be decided upon differently, but you certainly do not need to place yourself at her disposal.....b/c she will dispose of as much as she can and leave you holding the bill.
I hate to see anyone give up on a M that hasn't lasted any longer than this. You've only been on the board a few months. However, I do not believe in a man being a doormat for his WAW, nor do I believe he should financially support her if she is the one that walks away for another man. Child support is simply that....what the children need when they are with her......not a nice home for her to live in and a nice care to drive around.
I wish you the best, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
