But she was 'with' OM AND still in the marriage for a long time. I would think they go hand in hand.
So me being dark and very little contact, doing what I'm doing? If(boy am I dreaming now)she makes some kind of move back to the marriage, I continue the darkness? I'm not saying pursue, but I suppose a different shade of darkness. Right now I'm at the point where I do not say hello or goodbye.
But still cordial
H4H,
I'm sorry, maybe it's just me, but I'm not understanding any of what you're saying here. I will say, however, that not saying a basic courtesy like "hello" or "goodbye" is NOT being cordial.