Sorry no docs on here for you are there any free health clinics in your area, I am sure that neurology is too specialized for that, but in some ways a doc a doc and maybe they could point in you a better direction.
I think that this is very interesting what you are on too here. you know him better then anyone and you could be spot on, I just want to raise two points to you. kind of devils advocate if you will. keep in mind i am not trying to push you in any direction only make you think about all directions.
one: are you a "fix it addict" like myself and many of us here. that does not mean that he does not have this problem and it is the cause of most of his issues, but is it to a point that only he can really deal with it. I struggle with my W depression the same way. it is painfully obvious and even docs have agreed hands down with me but I still can not make her seek help, she will have to do that in her own time.
second: "How could I have been so BLIND" is this frustration or are you blaming yourself. I could understand both but I hope you don't blame yourself. I had 11 years with hugely obvious signs of her depression before I could admit it, but that is not my fault, I would probably crumble if i tried to take that all onto my shoulders. just because we look at things in a different light then we did before does not mean that we were wrong for not seeing them before. even if you missed the biggest signs in the world you did not make him that way so don't take any blame for it.
Just something to think over, but let us know if you come up with a way to speak to a doc because i think it would be great info and could really help at least with accepting why he is the way he is.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
are there any free health clinics in your area, I am sure that neurology is too specialized for that, but in some ways a doc a doc and maybe they could point in you a better direction. 
