letting go

[artteach]

Tonight, I acted normal on the phone. He stays out of town during the week for his job, not where OW lives, she lives 1000 miles away (or so I hope she still does, I have fears she moved here to be with him during the week - may take a drive to the city one day and just check it out in a couple of weeks). If nothing else it made me feel better. He is so depressed, we are flat broke and he just started working again so the money has not started coming in yet from his job, next week he gets paid. Planned on having a talk with him this weekend, but now I am rethinking that and may wait until things are better for him workwise. I think now a realtionship or what I want talk would not go over well. At least now I am reading that kind of thing better. When to keep my mouth shut and when it is a good time to talk. Oh well, bath time for the kids and I am going to relax and just veg out tonight.