"I know that once I am past this part of my life, I'll look back and think...I wasted a lot of time dwelling on HIS life and not on my own. It's hard to grieve the loss of your M. It hurts."
I know.. its not fun. And at times it feels like a knife.
But you just said.. I know. I know I need to be me. I know I need to stand out. I know he is missing "life".
You said... I know!!!
One of the first things we touched on was the control he had.
I am gonna tell you.. you can take the control away. You can.
You just gotta stop saying.. I Can't.
"Getting laid is not my goal, but it was interesting that he mentioned the rings right after I posted about them. Hmmmm. A sign, maybe, that it might be time?"
It does not matter what other people think! Truth be told.. you could get laid with the rings on. It just goes to prove that you stand out. And still can't "see" it.
You make the choice on what to do with the rings. Even if a year from now.. you go on your first date with "OM".. and you wear the rings.. thats OK. Even if you are D.
The rings.. will always represent who you were. Standing there exchanging them with H. I like that person.. your H did to. You were good enough.. I don't understand.. why you think you are not now? (I really do understand why.. it just takes something away from what I am telling you)
Don't get stuck.. on what to do.
Understand what you do.. and accept it.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
