Hey, everyone! Thanks for chiming in. Good to hear from you Essie, Nut, and Phoenixdeux. And Kerry, that law does blow.
Yes, I do think my W is getting very desperate b/c she knows she's losing. Right now, I'm not going to concede anything to her. She's going to pay me 1/2 her pensions, she's going to have to move to a neutral location (if that is decreed) and she's going to have to share our D.
This was completely unnecessary and she knows it. Now this latest allegation is just way too much. My L and I today talked and he sent off something to her L and the parenting evaluator about her latest charge and we've requested for us both to take a polygraph test not only on this subject, but on her claims of "sexual assualt" as well.
If these aren't lies, we'll both be taking polygraphs. Anyone want to bet on the odds that a polygraph is agreed to be taken?
As for the custody issue, my L has requested a phone conference w/ her L and the parenting evaluator to discuss the progress of his report. No word on when that is scheduled for as of yet.
Today she sent me another e-mail telling me not to interrogate D and that her new "flavor of the month" man is willing to meet w/ me so I can learn more about him. I'm not replying. She gets nothing from me. NOTHING. She can have basic information, but I won't be responding to anything I get from her.
It is very sad. It never had to be like this and I'll be the reason for her problems for the rest of her life. She's not going to change any time soon. I just don't see it.
Finally, I started reading through the therapy notes from W's counselling and her T was working w/ her to stay in the marriage and to get through her issues from childhood - lots of childhood issues in the notes - up until she decided to file for D. Not surprisingly that is also when she stopped going to counselling.
Again, it is very sad, but it is also my reality. I'm ok w/it. I'm in a much better place now. I'm not sure how I got here, but I am ok.
