We're never getting back together-How do you cope?

[onedge]

Ok some things have happened since I posted on here last time, basically I'm going dark again, or dim.
I didn't call W back yesterday when she pranked me 2 times (meaning "call me back") and she sent me a text asking me to call.
I talked to the kids last night, W told me off (there was another thread in there with most of the story, i'll post it in my signature when I am at work)
She texted me twice this morning, I called her back coz' the second one was abusive.
When she got on the phone she abused me for not answering sooner (i was asleep give me a break) and told me that i never call there anymore (I don't call for her, but i call for the kids every night at the moment. This is after one day of going dark/dim?!?).
Basically she just wanted to tell me that her internet was cut off because I didn't change the plan (she told me she would take care of it, I didn't say that though). She spent the next 15 minutes bitching about debt's that she has at the moment and all that kind of stuff, and that she can't get on the internet. Sounded like she was blaming me for it all but then said "i'm not blaming you for it, i'm just upset and", i finished her sentence "needed someone to take it out on", I was right. She then bitched some more about it, but not in a blaming way, someone is using her wireless, i asked if she wanted me to fix it or if she wanted me to talk her through it, she didn't have time so yeah, she doesn't have the money for much now, she has been offered a caravan to stay in at her mums house which she doesn't want to do. Also she had to point out that she talking to me because she had nobody else to talk to at that point, her "mum doesn't care she is too into "world of warcraft" for W to talk to about this stuff, I asked her to stop pointing that out.
I changed the subject and we talked about "world of warcraft" for about the the next 15minutes just light conversation and she left the conversation a lot happier than when we started talking.

I'd say that the conversation was a bit of a success on my part, I made her feel far better than when I first called, and told her that she can bitch to me whenever she needs to. Conversation was ending and we said goodbye.

I'm not good at judging things with going dark yet, so can anybody give me an opinion or advice on that part?