But she was 'with' OM AND still in the marriage for a long time. I would think they go hand in hand.

So me being dark and very little contact, doing what I'm doing? If(boy am I dreaming now)she makes some kind of move back to the marriage, I continue the darkness? I'm not saying pursue, but I suppose a different shade of darkness. Right now I'm at the point where I do not say hello or goodbye.

But still cordial


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."