Hey guys did I also mention the OW is completely different from me actually opposites. In fact a few weeks ago my daughter said dad you went from gold to dirt, and he responds yeah I did. Mind you my daughter can hear her in the background talking to her son.

OW is the same age, she has been divorced. Was engaged when A started. She has 3 children. One over 18. The 2nd child is 14 but she has had to ship off the 2nd child because she is so bad and keeps getting in trouble with the law. And of course a son 9 who lives with them now. My children are awesome, well raised-of course a few rough spots because of this but over all great kids. They go to church weekly with no complaining.

From what I understand, being told by a mutual friend of both H and I, that this girl is bad news. Hangs out at the bar.

He had a friendship with her is what he confessed to me, that they had talked on the phone for almost a year. I think an EA then a PA. I think he deliberately chose someone who was a mess. Although my H outwardly looked confident, I knew he wasn't. Where I may complain about myself a little but inwardly I am more confident. Anyways me and the OW total opposites-total complete opposites. I am hoping this will work to my favor. She seems real unstable but he went through with it anyways. Her kids are a mess but he did it anyways. ?????


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca