No idea.

I don't know whether he is missing the children, missing a stable home life, missing someone who doesn't make him feel old, missing being able to watch the news instead of a sitcom, or missing me.

He doesn't know either!!!

You're right - he has to get well for him, not for me, or the kids, or anyone else. It's good for him really. He's never 'lost' me before this, as I never knew. He's discovered what it is like to lose me and he really doesn't like it. I could probably do with some expert counselling on this one...

Or maybe it will all blow over in a week when he's found someone else!


Last edited by happycamper; 09/11/08 07:53 PM.

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