For the last couple of days H's world has come crashing down, his R with new g/f is on the rocks, and he thinks he has made a big mistake. That quote about not being able to return to the R once the truth was out seemed to contribute - that and me talking about dating again.
He's been very upset, misses the children dreadfully, sees his new R for what it really is, and thinks he has totally "f****d up".
He's been good, very respectful. He's not said anything specific about wanting to come back as he needs to be sure what is going on in his head before he says it to me. He has contacted Sex Addicts Anon and once he gets back off holiday, plans to go.
A part of me is hoping that this is just a phase, momentarily wanting me back because things aren't going well. I would have no idea how on earth to move forward with him if he really wanted to start again. I don't even know if I want him back.
Don't know if you are reading this Grant, but you were right!
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
