P.S. Are you able to kick him out? If so, I'd do that. If not, I'd tell him you are done, and mean it. Do not share a room with him (or get out if possible) and start avoiding him as much as possible, up to and including going out without explanation. Maybe not even come home if you don't feel like it. Basically, make sure he know you are cutting him out of your life. He's using you as his doormat and you need to stand up for yourself. Go forward with your life. This affair will implode and then he'll chase you. He might even help it implode because he knows it's not going anywhere (he just wants a piece), and he will fear losing you.

He has to KNOW that you are done with him. Being angry isn't enough. He has to realize that you have kicked him to the curb before he'll take any notice (if he's going to). Up to you at that point if you want to try again.

Last edited by Phoenixdeux; 09/11/08 06:57 PM.
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