[/quote]3. At Retro she told them that she HATES writing down stuff for dialogue. Her feeling doesn’t come freely into words. BUT she said she does it. (With a smile I might add) for ME. Because she knows I enjoy it.[quote]
Doc,
This is where H and I would both be if we went to Retro. Me only because I have gone so long without talking about things because H won't and H because he doesn't talk feelings.
You and your W have come so far, Leaps and Bounds far! You are right it is hard to see the small positives sometimes but , I do look. H is showing me affection at home where before the bomb he wouldn't even look to me. He is including me more. He holds me at night most everynight. Takes me out once in a while. He told me last night he appreciated me.(after I told him thanks for putting the dishes in the washer and taking me and MIL to dinner that I apprecaite it).
A work in progress and I hope to be able to include more positives soon.
Have to shake things up.
Oh and by the way I think it wouldn't be good to slap OM around so WORK on it.
What does your W do for work if I may ask?
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
