Thanks, kat, I hope you are right. It is what I keep telling myself and hoping for. It isn't easy for either W and I to deal with D14's negative feelings towards our R. It was one of the big topics during C yesterday. The other being XOM. The good part of it is that we are communicating better about these issues rather than withdrawing and stewing.
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