I totally agree. I just need the chance to show it like crazy! For what's it worth though H DID say on our 1st joint session that he thinks I've "come a long way", and has recently said that I am being really good about giving time and space. Hopefully these things alone will be enough to prevent him from freaking out and leaving when I just return home one night :).
Then I can build on the lack of momentum by just staying calm, quiet and unavailable, except for sex of course...planning too far into the future maybe, but I need to build this strength up. I think in some ways the next chapter may be the hardest!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
