Hey Thanx Everybody for the advise!! Yes, it's my car too (Actually, I paid for it & both our names Should still be on the title). Like the ideas - a lot. Was kinda unsure about going to get it - because of the 'control issues'. Last time I went to his house in Dec, I was in a bad state - the I think I'm going crazy state! Well, he accsued me of stalking him. But the car is an issue that is on the table. I guess this time I'm stalking the car not HIM \:\) lol

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)