6 months til I bring it up again ? or do I pretend she's not coming back for at least 6 months ? or something else ?
All the above. Except don't "pretend" she's not coming back. Accept that she's NOT!!! You have no idea how far she will go with this. And your refusal to give up the desperate pursuing will ensure she doesn't.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
