I find that family and friends are very judgemental of my new relationship as well.
I would like to think its because they are worried I am jumping into something too quickly...however I know that for my friends its much more shallow. They feel that I missed out on "playing the field"...not quite sure why they think that dating a bunch of random dudes is cool???
I have to keep reminding them that the first 3 guys that I went on dates with were terminally flawed. All my age yet 2 were living with their Mother and one revealed on the first date that he was a high school drop out...
So if you find someone worth while and you click...everyone else be damned. Give it your all
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
I think I am falling into an after divorce depression. I don't want to do anything or go anywhere. Heck, I don't even feel like goign to work. I wish I could hop on a plane and take off to places unknown without a regard for my job or the rest of my life.
When does it get better? Why is it getting worse?
I did contact the school and as best efforts they are trying to keep me in the loop. So we will see.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
I am totally feeling like u, it comes and goes.. I am also changing my name back to my maiden name evrywhere but I too dont feel like it 'fits' anymore.. Sort of like -who am I??? a lost divorcee puppy??