In some respects it has been very unhealthy for me to work the wheel of communication with H as it has given him my thoughts & feelings & wants that he then later ridicules, patronizes & just is out & out mean about, when he gets angry. Then he turns around & blames me for causing my own pain.. "if you hadn't pushed my buttons, I wouldn't have lost it"
Sorry Bridge if this offends you but he is being a Jackass!
Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
I can choose not to share things with people who treat me like that. That is healthy choice for me.
Good for you Bridge,
I like your boundries and the not answering his calls if you don't want to. I would keep all comunication with him limited to your kids and MC for now until her learns how to treat you with respect.
