Timing is everything FG in regards to approaching h with mc. Those are the words of the world if he's doing it why shouldn't you mentality.

No, because I am standing for my vows I am being faithful to my partner regardless if he is not honoring his vows right now. If you ever have to walk away, then you walk away knowing that you respected your h and m.

It does sound tempting though!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"