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Yes, go get the car. Look great, maybe even pull a suitcase out of the trunk and put it in the convertible. We need Mysterious Mel to show up. Be assertive, strong and sexy.
No comment on the switching sides joke.
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Oh I like the suitcase idea...well maybe an overnight bag?


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exactly Jen! mwah ha ha


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Hey Thanx Everybody for the advise!! Yes, it's my car too (Actually, I paid for it & both our names Should still be on the title). Like the ideas - a lot. Was kinda unsure about going to get it - because of the 'control issues'. Last time I went to his house in Dec, I was in a bad state - the I think I'm going crazy state! Well, he accsued me of stalking him. But the car is an issue that is on the table. I guess this time I'm stalking the car not HIM \:\) lol


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Alright - here's my joke. Back to work for me. Later.

Mrs. Andrews & Her Lost Love

Mrs. Andrews named her cat Love because it was so affectionate. One day, when Love failed to return home, Mrs. Andrews went out to look for her lost cat. Since she was wearing nothing but a bathrobe, a police officer stopped her and asked, “What are you doing?” Mrs. Andrews replied, “I was out here looking for Love.” The police officer arrested her on the spot.


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And you all thought my jokes were bad. Geez.


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BAD JOKE! sh!t!

Did you go get the car?


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Hheeeyyyy - That was from comedy central!! No I emailed him what time tomorrow would be good. I just received an email stating he will let me know what time he gets off work tomorrow. If not then I go on Saturday.


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hummm is he a control freak? Because this reaks of "control issues"


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No Jen, Actually - I have the control issue. I do admit that. Well, lets see ... if you were a man would you rather drive a 2 seater convertable or a 4 door compact car???? (When we/I bought it he said it was the nicest car he ever had). Ask your XH - which he would prefer (out of curiosity)?

So yes - since the bomb he has been in control of both of us. Finally, I'm taking back control of ME only - again.

Also remember my H is depressed & in debt & me well, through his eyes I have everything.


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