I agree with Jen. This is an opportunity to stand up for your interests in a positive way. You don't have to be mean about it just be casual and matter o factly go get it in an assertive manner like all is as it should be.
Sometimes I think I need to do more of this. I've been having a rough week. A little bit of assertiveness could go a long way.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
