Very good points Jen I will change all goals to "I". I am aiming for 2 months for these goals.
I will try to get to these goals by being extremly nice when he does contact and subtly flirting with him and letting him see the woman he fell in love with. I will also not always be available like I have been recently. I will no longer tell him about my financial difficulties either as everytime even though he does ask, afterwards he looks said when I tell him. I will "Act as if" everything is fine and dandy!!!
