It is positive. I feel much better than I did last week. I will try to not start any R talks and if he brings something up I will try to just listen and validate what he says.
When he says things about arguing too much or just being good friends I do agree with him. Because we did argue too much and we do make good friends. However I think I always try to push it to the next level. Like, we argued too much but we can fix in in the future. Or we make good friends so we should be able to make our marriage work. I always add something on when I am validating his feelings and thoughts. So this weekend (if we get together) I will try to remember to validate in a plain and simple way and not add things to what he is saying.
Well there is more to say but I gotta hop in the shower before work. So I will TTYL!
Have a good day ITH! Have you started a new thread?
