On the rings I guess you do what is right like someone said above. For me I waited awhile (maybe 6 months) then realized the D was happening whether I wanted it to or not and it was in my best interest to accept it in every way. Sure, I cried when I took them off because it symbolized sort of giving in. But after awhile I was ok with it and felt really good about myself...ME! That I wasn't clinging as much. It was a step to independence.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
