My H is driving me crazy! Last night when he picked up the girls he came in and gave me a hug and told me you look good,maaan. Why does he do this? Then our one D told him Lindsey (OW) is not here Daddy. His face turned red and he looked at me and I 1/2 smiled at him and calmly said in a sarcastic way, Isn't she cute. I thought it was funny b/c I know he was expecting me to fly off the handle as he usually says. I remained calm. He called this morn to tell me that last night our one D was giving him problems. She was throwing a fit and calling out for her Mommy. He said that it made him feel like crap and he thinks that it just shows that he does not spend enough time with them and he thinks that he should get more time with them at his place. He said that it has been 4 months and they should feel comfortable at his place and that her behavior indicates she needs to be with him more. I stayed calm but this is crazy, he has no idea of what this is doing to our girls and still thinks that moving towards D b/c he still won't say that is what we are doing is best for us. Wow he needs a swift kick in his a**! I suggested co-parenting C and he said yes. This is good but I feel that for our M this is confirming that a D is what he wants. I will keep praying for him to have a change of heart and that in the mean time we can keep the children's interest first. What types of visitation do any of you guys have?
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08
