I've been around - reading other peeps threads. Lurking around. I was around Sat. night - remember? I see yours has a positive change of events. Just keep one or both feet on the ground. You've been getting some good advise.
Nope, no, new isues for me ..... good ... bad .... who's to say. It was a GAL weekend for me ... cannot complain
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
OOHHH a MsMel visit. I thought you got scared off. So what's up with the gift giver? Jen come you know you laughed. Do you how hard it is to put up a halfway funny joke that won't offend half the BB? We want to hear one of your jokes. BTW my sense of humor is just one of my many talents.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Ok, So all has been quiet with my H (no real surprise there). I was supposed to get the convertible last weekend, but it was inconvenient for him - so I emailed him that this weekend would be fine. (He mentioned I could have it the entire week). Well, it's Wednesday & I haven't heard from him. Should I email him again? Or maybe email him that I will be over on Friday to pick it up? Or do I just show up at his house for the trade? DBcoach Jody said if he didn't respond to my 1st email (which he did) - then I should just go & get/trade cars. Any advise??
BTW - Why am I making as issue of this & want the car. 1. To have a bit of fun driving the car. 2. To have him see his cute W in the car & wonder what I'm up to (yes, my jealosy card).
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Hi there! Is it your car too? If it is then I think you could go over there and tell him "I came to get the car". He told you you could have it for the week and he hasn't kept his word. Jody told you to go get the car and I agree with her. if you don't he sees that he can have some control over you. YOU want control over you!
Let us know what you decide
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I agree with Jen. This is an opportunity to stand up for your interests in a positive way. You don't have to be mean about it just be casual and matter o factly go get it in an assertive manner like all is as it should be.
Sometimes I think I need to do more of this. I've been having a rough week. A little bit of assertiveness could go a long way.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
Just keep one or both feet on the ground. You've been getting some good advise.