I did send H an email yesterday letting him know I was proud of him. I know that it was something he's been unsure of in the past so it's a great deal to me that he did this. We spoke last night after I picked up D from him and brought her to Rel Ed. He told me he was nervous but it should be fine, and said he'll call me after the appt to let me know how it went. So I feel pretty good about it. The only thought eating at me is I hope he's not lying about this. I hope he's really going and will do so fully, being honest with IC too. AND, I hope IC will tell him his honest opinions and not just say what H would like to hear.