Bighands took the words out of my mouth. Your H keeps talking about how he does not want to be dependent on you yet he is making this your problem. Would it be a 180 if you told him you were sure that he could figure it out? Just some ideas to consider.
I completly agree that if you just moved back in it would solve all of the money problems (The logical answer that I want to scream at my H too!!!) but I think it has alot to do with their DAM ego. They still want us to help out with some things yet they can do it all on their own. Grrrrr.
Hang in there ITH!!
P.S. I love Jody's idea about just moving back in!!
