Ok so I went over the chapter in DR about setting goals and as I only have limited interaction with H now via text here are my goals for the month...
1. Let H initiate all contact 2. Do not argue about anything during conversations 3. Validate whatever he says 4. Compliment H when given the opportunity 5. H will contact more often (hopefully because of previous) 6. We will see each other at least every other week
I even wrote down some long term goals for when we get to piecing. (Being extremely positive)
1. We will have date night at least twice a month (Just the two of us not including groups) 2. H will come over for dinner at least once a week 3. H will discuss finances and what each should be putting into the household in order for us to live together.
