Oh, and it might be better for S13 if he did have an instant brother - but this chick has all girls. So, it will be him, and 5 girls (plus the skank) in the house.
The thought makes me ill.
S told me about the "room" they are talking about putting in the basement for him. Right now, it is unfinished, and the house is full of mice (been empty since April). He DOES NOT want to sleep down there. He said he would be ok on a pull-out couch with a dresser in the living room, but his dad is pushing it. I feel bad for him...I just told S that I am concerned about her D15 being next to him in the basement. He said Why? I told him that she is just at a different place in her life with a boyfriend and I don't want him to grow up too fast...plus, she could wear more clothes. He said, Yeah and blushed.
Wow--has your H lost his mind?? Well, rhetorical question, I know. But anyway--putting 2 teenagers in the basement together, an unrelated boy and girl?? How dumb is that?? And in a basement full of mice, no less. What a plan.
Have they already secured a loan? Because it's a real possibility they may be unable to under the circumstances unless each has exemplary credit.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012