Hello, Ok it's been a couple of days without speaking to my W. Someone please tell me I am doing the right thing. It's sooooo hard not to contact her. I know I have to do this to help start healing but boy is this hard. Even though we have been apart for 9 months we still have some form of contact almost everyday due to the kids. My W appears to have moved on, at least that is what she is saying to everyone. That is how she is acting as well. It looks like despite all my DB efforts I have a W that D is what she wants 100%. It's so hard as I am doing all I can and have had no success. I have separated friends that are doing everything wrong yet are having success with getting together to try to work things out. My W never really came to me to let me know things were not good, she just left. Yes, I know I was not really listening to her. I have become a typical ex that has done everything I know possible to become a kind, appreciative and caring H. I just don't get how that hold absolutely no interest from her at all. Yes I have read almost every post on here and understand how she "was" feeling when we were together. I just don't get how we at least don't even talk about anything. We have two of the most beautiful children together. Just down again today.
Last edited by whitneypinch; 09/11/0811:46 AM.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
