Oh,

OK I IMd him, very light and nice though, or so I thought. He got really irritable.

"we are doing so well on our budget, was just thinking that we could do something like pay 2K on your school from our current account and maybe the last 3 from either my corporate account or our joint account just to make sure there are no problems".

H: "we will see. i still do not know how much we owe"
M: "yeah from the email it looked like about 5600, looked like for this year, but I guess they need to confirm."
H: "i am going to have to repeat- again that it was from last year hence it says 2007/2008"
M: "yeah it was just confusing I guess"
H: "hopefully it is clear so i do not have to repeat again"
M: "yes I think I just got confused, sorry about that, OK well just let me know if I can do something to help"
H: ok

By the way the email he forwarded shows 0 balance for last year, and the balance due for this year. I am not going to point this out and fight with him though. I feel like we have taken a bunch of steps back now, as he feels as though this is my fault, has basically already said he wouldn't forgive me if it doesn't get sorted. Now this will be yet another example of him going along with things to his own detriment. I feel so sick...

He makes it my fault, but won't let me help, and is angry with me even while I'm being nice. If I were home things would be soooo much easier.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!