SD - I know you read my thread sometimes so you will know I've been in a similar position. You gotta move on and accept it's over. God has our paths planned or so it's said so he planned this, smile through it now, mourn what you've lost and think about how your new life looks.
Don't get me wrong, it's super tough and I so wanted to save my family and work on it, even after I found out that there were multiple one night stands (as someone said once, it's only a XXXX, it's not like they ML). It's the worst thing you'll ever go through, but what choice you got ? You got a lot of time left on this planet, enjoy it. Good Karma. You tried, you did your bit, now move on.
Hope that doesn't come accross as harsh, I just want you to be happy and we make ourselves happy.
