Hey everyone! Don't know if anyone is still awake? Im a night nurse and the babies are sleeping right now. Anyway, I don't post as often as some, but just let me say Im getting addicted. Its so nice to talk to those who know exactly where youre coming from and dont think youre a lunatic for actually wanting to save your marriage. Gotta stay positive and that means surrounding ou rselves with positive people.
Hope3343 I agree with T2l. I would play the apartment thing down.It's a boost to their sick egos when they get any rise out of us. Right now concentrate your energy on you and your kids safety during this hurricane. I don't know about you, but Im starting to feel like the Bible character Job. Since my marriage has come crashing down it has been nothing but a string of bad luck for me too. So you are coachbusting too? How's that going? I finally bit the bullet and bought 6 sessions. Used my first one last week with Vernetta. Too early to say for me.
Marisol- yes I too think legal advice is in your best interest right now. "The Divorce Store"?!?! And I thought picking a lawyer randomly out of a phone book was taking it too lightly! (which is what my H did ) I strongly believe in good referrals for matters so serious, which is how I got a couple names of mediators . Left the names with H personal belongings the last time he was home with kids. He left the names behind but took his other belongings. So dont know what he's up to. I'm considering seeking advice on my own, but cost and hope are deterring me at the moment. I do wonder how much OW pushes them for D.
Right now very concerned about OW's H. He was the one that informed me of A and I didnt believe it until H confessed. OW's H called again and we vented our feelings, but since then Ive ignored any other calls and texts from him. He showed up at my house unannounced with their two S to find out why Ive been avoiding him and was I mad at him. I said not mad at him , just trying to disassociate from everything and GAL because this was feeling very uncomfortable, then politely excused myself. He obviously didnt get hint because he called the next day- wants to take his kids to same church. I just cried and cried. I cant tell someone they cant go to church, especially the kids, but that is my "sanctuary" our "happy place" . Thats last thing I need is OW's H sitting down the aisle from me! H called this morning to ask why OW's H was at the house. H said OW's H left voice message threatening to "blow his head off" and sent blanket email to all families on S11 baseball team telling them about A and for all men to watch their wives closely because the "coach" (my H) might be f*#$%$g their wives too. I hate what my H is doing, but OW's H cannot be making threats like this! He's still my H AND my children's father! Getting scared.
me-36 H-38 S-14 S-11 D-11 IDLYA bomb 6/18/08 H moved out 6/19/08 H confessed EA(probably PA by now)and asked for D 7/04/08
