The problem that I had with having hope was that it kept me locked into looking for signs, any sign, that said he was going to come home. It was when I began to have hope again that maybe things would work out that I lost the focus on myself and slid back into waiting for him
You know that has been such a huge topic here on surviving, whether all the talk of hope and baby steps, was keeping us "stuck" I def fell into that- I bet most did- Ex played on it as well, giving me hope, till he found someone "better" I think we all have our own timetable of when its time to move on - cant do it too soon or we will always wonder, what if.
Its a slow healing process but it does come , you will get there too, you sound actually very positive and solid on your choice. Good for you. You must be a left coaster, I'm bettin, everyone else is sleepin lol
g'night and welcome.
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
