For me.. I went through phases where it felt awful to take my rings off. The very last time I took them off it honestly felt empowering. But I took it a day at a time. They were in my jewelry box and EVERY DAY for awhile, I'd ask myself "Do I want to wear 'em today? No.. ok" for awhile. I got to a point where I hated them, they represented a "giant lie" to me. I went from Oct last year to July this year not wearing them... suddenly my mood shifted again in July and I liked them again, put them on.
If you think you want them off, try it for an hour and see how you feel.
Like ST I think SENDING the videos is good, just don't expect a reply.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
