Sorry Dawn that your h is going out of town with ow. Your talk with God in the shower sounded encouraging. My philosophy is it only takes one to stop the cycle. Love back unconditional, but do it with all your heart.

Do it not because you want something in return, but because it is the way God would want you to be towards your h.

Find it in your heart to forgive. Your h could never return without you leading that way.

Well at least he communicated that he was leaving rather than leave and not say a word. Not sure if you see that as a positive or not.

Hopefully God will shower him with guilt. You know you could pray for that!

Last edited by glamgirl; 09/11/08 03:48 AM.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"