I will give it a try. If we go out this weekend, even just for a day trip to the beach I will keep the R talks out of it and see how it goes. I guess I just get confused sometimes and do not know what phase I am in and what I can and cannot say. I also think I feel a little pressured with all these big life changes swirling around us but we are going to counseling on Tuedsday so I am going to make a goal to keep it light and fluffy until then!
Although it is nice to know that we can have R talks and not argue. So while it may not all be positive at least we are able to do so as civilized adults.
