I agree with Jen. It seems whenever you have R talk you take whatever is said as a negative so try one time with NO R talk at all. Just have fun and enjoy each others company. It will take the pressure off the day and you probably end up with a completly positive day.

I think it sounded like a great day all in all.

Originally Posted By: daisy282
He said that was part of the problem, that he wants something low maintenence. Which is kinda laughable because it's a MARRIAGE!!!


Same thing my H said ......he thought we would get married, start a family and just be happy he didn't think there would be any work!! Grrr...DAM. I think they accuse woman of wanting the "fairy tale" marriage but sometimes I think that it's the guys that think everything is suppose to be unrealistic.

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