Ok, I have a question. How did she "discover" that you had moved her stuff around?
I agree with the other gals that you should make the room yours. It will be very rewarding when you've accomplished that and I think you W will be shocked that you've decluttered. Maybe then you can help the boys work on theirs too??? You should be able to do whatever you like with the bedroom. If you feel like moving the whole room around then why not? It is your room.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*