Suzy, usually in NC,you lose the spousal support once you remarry, too. However, somehow I was fortunate enough that I was able to keep receiving spousal for 2 years, post negotiations, whether I remarried or not. I will stop receiving mine just before Bill moves to NC.
I will get lifetime spousal support unless I remarry or live with a man for more than a year. I know that is a bone of contention with X, but he makes over twice what I make and without it I wouldn't be able to maintain a good home for the kids. The last time he went off on a rant about it I reminded him that his attorney advised him to sign it so he needed to discuss it with her or get over it!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
