{{{{{Marisol}}}}}}}}} You sound strong tonight. I was actually doing a DB for my H tonight. He was putting plywood up (a miracle since he has done nothing in months), so when he comes in I tell him "You are my hero tonight", I think he was shocked. He said yeah wait a day or two and I will be an A--hole again. So I say but today you are my hero. I think he was pleased. Marisol, get legal advice as soon as possible, for your own protection. Do you own a house or anything? How long were you married. Most states if you are married more than 10 years gives you more rights. If my H starts talking D seriously then I will go. My biggest fear is that he will make out very well if they split our assets. He is so bad with money he will burn through 1/2 of our life savings in a year. Hoping it does not come to that. I know it is upsetting that H is filing but let him think that you are moving on. Tell him you get it, you understand he is happy and then do a 180 and back off. No calling, no texting anything. Let him wonder why? We have to through them some curve balls and actions they do no expect. You do sound better today and I am happy you have your feet firmly on the ground.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
