She still denies it...but evidence leans otherwise. She is sooo strange.
I had a surgical procedure today and did not want her around. Instead, I had my mom take me. My wife called several times, but I ignored her until early afternoon. I text her that everything is fine and later called to speak to the kids. I stayed away until after dinner then came home.
She was upset that my contact with her was nominal as she was concerned and worried about me. I was a bit shocked and suprised to hear this especially the way she has been treating me over the past few weeks.
I am of course not reading too much into this, but we did argue a bit about maintaining respect to one another as well as avoiding conflict in front of the kids. Afterwatds, we then became civil, but she was again was cold and emotionless as well as stating again she did nothing this Summer.
I am trying to avoid regular contact with her, but it is tough while we still live under the same roof. She also satted that I should be the one to file the divorce papers, but I refused, as I am not the one that wants the divorce. Also, she thinks I am getting out of the house soon, but she is solely mistaken. (Even though we worked out a financial arrangement--she need a couple of dollars for the kids to have lunch at school--I gave it to her. Im such a pushover and need to stop!!)
Stage 1 is tough as its hard to be emotionless and disconnected while seeing her everyday. Complete avoidance is impossible, but I will continue to try.
