I really think it will get better once Bill and I are living together. I think right now he feels he can still throw his weight around.
I am hoping my situation will be better when the house finally sells and we no loonger have that in common. Right now he feels as though he still has a say in my life and tries to exert his control through the house. He has even said things abbout bringing the kids back to "our house." Yes it is both of ours in name, but he has not lived here for a year and a half, and he is remarried and shares a home with his wife. Maybe he has manhood issues because that house was hers and is probably still in her name (if she has half a brain.....well she did marry him so I am not sure she does), so he has no control. And he also drives a car that was hers and she gave it to him to drive when they were "just friends." Hmmmmmm.....I am beginning to think he spews at me because his wife owns everything and he feels powerless there, so he has to try to exert power over me. LOL I laugh about his little fits and go on with my life.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
