L, It's just a house. It can be changed.

She has moved forward and it is good that you are seeing her through this stressful time.

If they are living together, it may make him less attractive, if he is attractive to her....

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D