I know that in some way we will always have some contact because of the kids. And, I really do try to get along w/ him...for the sake of the kids, if no other reason. I have even agreed to let him take our youngest to Boy Scouts, even though it is not part of the visitation agreement.
I just want him to communicate w/ me without yelling, cussing, and calling me names.
I guess after so many years....I shouldn't expect anything to be different now.
According to the kids, he even talks this way to his new wife.
I just shake my head in awe that I put up w/ it while we were married! Man, I really was stupid!